Have you ever gone on so many dates and ask yourself, why can’t I find the right man for me? You start to wonder if there’s something wrong with you. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I always tell my clients, it is okay to be selective but not too selective. As we get older we should start to reduce our list of things we look for in a partner. What I have noticed in the past is that people tend to get fixated on physical appearance. Of course physical attraction is important but it should not be a deal breaker for a potential date. For example, say you only date athletic men that are 6 feet tall. Ok that’s fine, you like tall men. But what happens if you meet an amazing athletic guy but he’s only 5’8”? You shouldn’t eliminate him solely because of his height. If you set strict high standards then your pool of men will be limited. At the end of the day, it’s your choice!
I have a male friend who only shows interest in beautiful women that look like models. I hate to say it but he’s no male model or actor. I had to break it to him that in order for a model to want to date him, he would have to be rich. I’m not saying that every model only wants a rich man but let’s be realistic. I have suggested women that I found attractive for him to date but they were not super model status. He would shrug his shoulders and say “no thanks not my type”. As a result, he remains single because his standards are too high.
These are examples of traits that you should look for in a partner: intelligent, mature, compassionate, humorous, patient, kind, goal-oriented, financially stable, educated, and open-minded.
Now if you are physically active and are looking for a partner that is also physically active, then that’s perfectly fine. If you know you like a person to have nice teeth, then that’s fine too.
Just remember, no one is perfect and not everyone can look like a celebrity or model
You know what type of person you attract. Allow the law of attraction to guide you to your mate.
Bio – Miss Dela Q. is a Relationship Life Coach and is the author of the blog http://whyamisingle.net. The blog is about the comical stories about being a single woman in America. Just go through the satirical blog and enjoy funny experiences of single women shared in the blog.
I have a male friend who only shows interest in beautiful women that look like models. I hate to say it but he’s no male model or actor. I had to break it to him that in order for a model to want to date him, he would have to be rich. I’m not saying that every model only wants a rich man but let’s be realistic. I have suggested women that I found attractive for him to date but they were not super model status. He would shrug his shoulders and say “no thanks not my type”. As a result, he remains single because his standards are too high.
These are examples of traits that you should look for in a partner: intelligent, mature, compassionate, humorous, patient, kind, goal-oriented, financially stable, educated, and open-minded.
Now if you are physically active and are looking for a partner that is also physically active, then that’s perfectly fine. If you know you like a person to have nice teeth, then that’s fine too.
Just remember, no one is perfect and not everyone can look like a celebrity or model
You know what type of person you attract. Allow the law of attraction to guide you to your mate.
Bio – Miss Dela Q. is a Relationship Life Coach and is the author of the blog http://whyamisingle.net. The blog is about the comical stories about being a single woman in America. Just go through the satirical blog and enjoy funny experiences of single women shared in the blog.
