Let’s Take Things Slow

It’s incredibly irritating to hear the statement “let’s take things slow” from men. Say you’ve been dating a man for three months. Things are going great, or so you think. Well, you decide to take the plunge and ask him the burning question,

“What are we?” He replies, “Right now, I’m not looking to be in a committed relationship. Let’s take things slow.”

But here’s the kicker: you’ve already had sex with him! Now, all of a sudden, he says he needs to slow down. Seriously?!
 

This usually smells like bullshit to me, unless he also says
 

“I told you from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship.”
 

As women, we get so caught up with the fun, attention, and companionship, that we tell ourselves he’ll change his mind. Well, guess what? 99 times out of 100, men don’t change their minds.
 

If you’ve been dating a man for a few months, you’ve already done the deed, and all he can say is “let’s take things slow,” it’s time to think twice about whether or not he’s worth the energy and time. Trust me, you’ll know when a man is genuinely into you, and it won’t involve those four annoying little words.
 

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